There I said it.
Hubby turned to me a couple of days ago and said "It's your parents' anniversary" and I said "Who?" Hubby replied "Exactly" and laughed. I wasn't being facetious, I just didn't hear what he said but totally understand why hubby would say "exactly". My parents have put us through hell since we got back to California. It got so bad that we don't speak much. I don't have the stomach for it.