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Nope...I'm all for teamwork, equality, equal rights and equal pay
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Another problem I see is that there are two arenas that are thrown into one. Yes equal rights for equal
pay etc(office & work situation )... but what about the dating and relationship arena ? Men and women are by nature different, they are not equals but present beautiful compliments for and to each other.
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The movement did accomplish some good things, but it has turned into an us against them sort of thing
Relationships are one to one, understanding on a one to one level .... "third party interference" or some sort of group think mentality does not work. Each couple develops their unique dynamics.
if we can look past camps of understanding and work one on one to build a solid
communicative understanding this is the best ... talk to the heart of the matter
At the heart of it, a woman wants to know that she can trust you to provide a secure, supportive and possibly interesting future; that you have the depth to stand by her, no matter her moods and shortcomings. She needs to know you are strong enough to be faithful and never stray, come what may
At the heart of it, a man wants to touch the truth -- that you love him -- that he's "the one" for you. He wants to feel that he inspires happiness in you and that you accept, trust, and appreciate him. At his depth a man needs to know that he makes a positive difference in your life, otherwise he doesn’t even want to live.
A man’s deepest fear is that he is not good enough. If he looks in your eyes and sees love, he feels loved, and in that innocence, he loves you in return. He loves you for the feeling of energy which your appreciation and love evoke in him.
http://www.doctorkhalsa.com/
Most couples don't want a third party with them in bed while making love..so why allow others to come in between you as to the inner workings of your marriage ? Third party input breaks trust..... one on one communication builds trust between men and women