i recently had a phone call from an elder of my former cong. they would like to chat with me, and obviously want to encourage me to come back.
to make a long story short: the last 4 or five years i was a jw in their kh, i was more or less completly ignored. had in that time no phone calls, visits or any interest how i felt etc. jw´s avoided me in town, pretended they did´nt see me, or once i had to break off the five minute speach on stage due to lack of breath. the funny thing was, that the school-admin (or how do you say it) did´nt even mention the insident nor after the meeting. it was like nothing happened. i also remember my bookstudy elder, who almost on a weekly basis pronounced how to develope personal interest at the doors and return visits, but never asked me one question about myself, although it was known that i had huge problems at the time.
i also sent a while in hospital. and geuss what: it was known (not from stage though), but not a soul inquired when i left about my current health.
well, there are obviously a lot more stories similar to them. so i have accepted the invitation for a talk, because the p.o. is a very nice guy, but i don´t know if i should mention the things in the past.
but i think i should, because the last years i spent as a jw in their cong screwed me completely up.
what would be the best thing to do and say? thank you in advance. varian