So you are 18? Ok, I am 30.
I'm going to be brutally honest with you and everyone else on here. While I was growing up, I found the "Witness girls" to be mostly stuck-up, repressed, snobbish, cliquish, B*tches. Seriously, I couldn't stand them. And there were really only 2 kinds: really hot, or really ugly. You know which JW women I got along with best? Older, more mature women. I'm talking 15-25 years my own age. I got along with them perfectly, and my hormones always wished they would have made a move on me.
I was somewhat the opposite of you; in school I got along great with the "Worldly" girls of my own age. They were REAL, not some fake, polished, dress wearing, submissive, brainless, Quaker wanna-be. They wore shorts and showed some leg. They were fun and smart. Witness chicks (Teens, early 20's) were totally fake and since I wasn't interested in becoming an MS, I might as well have been invisible to them. There was ONE girl I liked when I was 16. She was 14, but was STACKED, pretty, and smart. She let it be known that she liked me. Too bad her step-father was the PO at the time, albeit a nice guy. He put a stop to her liking me. That sucked big-time, and I gave up ANY hope of finding a "witness mate" after that as I just knew I'd never be "good enough" for any of those condescending snobs. When I was 17, I confronted my parents with the fact that a 21-year old girl that I worked with at a local grocery store had asked me out. I was about to be a senior in high school and I point blank told them that I felt since I was old enough to work, pay for my own clothes, car, insurance, etc that I felt I was old enough to date as well. Surprisingly, they agreed and allowed me to date anyone I liked, as long as I was home by midnight. About 2 weeks later they came home from the grocery store and my father pushed a pack of condoms across the table at me. I was astounded!!! He was smart though, and knew I might as well be safe if I was going to be dating. This from pretty hard-core JW's while I was young!!! Guess they figured my bible-trained conscience would keep me out of most trouble. Funny thing is, it actually kept my virginity for another 6 months with the same girl. Man, I was a fool!! If I were smarter (and filled with less ingrained guilt) I would have used that box right away!!!!!
Other relationships came and went, until I was about 22 and met my current wife who is 17 years my senior. Been married 7 years.
Get on with your life and stop worrying about JW girls or even worldy women. What I discovered was that the manners, morals, and respect that I was taught while growing up a JW were actually very much sought after by "worldly" women who are impressed to the nth degree with them.
- Wing Commander