And then again some children just have certain tendancies they are born with...
I also feel parents aren't consistant and that causes a lot of problems with the child.
Or one parent is overly permissive because the other parent is so strict and they feel they have to overcompensate to the child.
Children get a lot of mixed messages and decide they will just do as they please.
When adults are confronted with their childs conduct they come back with "We pick our fights", it is a copout to be lazy.
Many times also a parent takes a negative comment about their child as an insult to their child raising abilities..they take it personally. By admitting their child may have done something wrong..(god forbid) they act like it is the other persons/childs fault.
Trouble is as a parent we only get one chance, there are no do overs..
But of course now I, as a more mature person, would do a "Perfect" job of raising a child...