blimey jonsey your own family didnt know if you were in or out but they think you were in but you were never in so youre out,
sounds like a cricket match.....
Yeah, time to make it simple.
What got me thinking about this was one of my cousins (a jw%"9 asked to be a friend on Facebook because we both have sons who are autistic. She does hair and was on a morning show participating in a contest and asked if she could stop by on her way home. She came by and we had a nice little visit. She told me that her brother has a son who's the same age as my oldest son and who lives nearby. I thought that was great and our two boys should get together since it's family, my kids love meeting family. She said cool and that she would give me a call. It never happened. I wonder if that cross she sat under had anything to do with it?