I worry because its always going to be conditional.
Soon, she wont be attending "enough" meetings for those so called friends, and she will be "bad association".
She wont be out in the ministry, or if she does, it wont be enough, and she will be "bad association".
I went through a similar period where I thought "something is better than nothing" so I should just stick it out.
I missed a lot of the people, but then I started to think about my actual TRUE friends. I have kept in touch with them throughout my fade. I can count them on one hand.I am starting to build new friendships, but it takes time, especially once your guard is on high-alert.
I think this is a part of the process that a lot of us go through. I would really ask her what she wants out of it, because it sounds like she might be postponing the inevitible. I think going back and reconnecting will make things a lot worse for her.......