Finished Ex-Jehovah's Witness Survey (Please fill out for help with project)...

by Tuesday 79 Replies latest jw friends

  • Tuesday
    Tuesday

    Hey everyone!

    So I completed the Ex-Jehovah's Witness survey (and all it took was about an hour of listening to a loop of KT Tungistall's version of "I Want You Back") and am looking to start compile data for it. I created an e-mail address to send the results to if you want to keep things confidential [email protected] or you can PM me here (please respond to the thread saying I have a PM), you can also message me at www.youtube.com/timkilgore or if you have my facebook and would rather send it to me there that's fine too. For the sake of the data which will have to be put into categories for charting and tracking please try to stick to the choices given and pick the one that best applies. If you absolutely can't then please feel free to make a note underneath after picking the most suitable answer. I've contacted a rather well known study group for statistics of this sort and they are interested in the findings and the raw data after I've completed the survey. They told me they would be more comfortable with a survey of 1000 or greater so please if you know people who don't really have too much internet access or don't visit boards like this that are Ex-Jehovah's Witnesses please bring their attention to this survey and ask them to send their filled out survey to me.

    Thanks so much everyone... (if anyone's wondering why I didn't create an online survey is because online surveys only allow me to see the results per question and not the answers for each individual that fills out the survey)

    Without further ado, here's the survey....

    Ex-Jehovah’s Witness Survey

    General

    A.) Name: (First name only please)

    B.) Gender

    Male

    Female

    C.) Age:

    10-18

    19-24

    25-30

    31-35

    35-40

    41-45

    45-50

    51-55

    56-60

    61-65

    65 +

    Questions:

    1.) How were you introduced to Jehovah's Witnesses:

    Parents/Grandparents/Relatives were in before you were born and taught you

    Parents/Grandparents/Relatives converted when you were young and taught you

    Converted early in life (Teenage or earlier)

    Converted in your 20's

    Converted in your 30's

    Converted later in life

    2.) How did you leave the religion:

    Disfellowshipped

    Disassociated

    Faded Away (slowly missed more and more meetings until you stopped going completely)

    Stopped attending all at once

    3.) What Age did you leave?

    10-18

    19-24

    25-30

    31-35

    35-40

    41-45

    45-50

    51-55

    56-60

    61-65

    65 +

    4.) Were you Baptized

    Yes

    No

    5.) What General reason did you leave the religion:

    Left for a boyfriend/girlfriend in the world, Fornicated with man/woman, General Fornication

    Was involved with Drugs/Drinking

    Wanted more Freedom (play school sports, date who you wanted, listen to music, etc.)

    Didn’t believe the teachings, not allowed to question the teachings, disagreed with stance on social issues, didn’t agree with things said in the magazines or on the platform.

    Felt the elders or organization abused their power, felt they took presidence over God, Problem with the way they organized the religion

    Left because of the people (saw too much hypocracy, too much gossip, passed over for some leadership role, was treated badly by those in the hall.)

    Depressed, Didn’t feel like doing all the things required of you, felt oppressed by the rules.

    Was abused physically, emotionally or sexually by someone in the hall and it was covered up.

    Rebelling against parents rules

    Other (Explain: _______________________________________________________________)

    6.) How did you feel about the doctrine before leaving:

    Believed everything said was correct

    Believed there were more things right than wrong

    Believed there we more things wrong than right

    Believed everything was wrong

    Didn’t think about the doctrine

    7.) Did your feelings about the doctrine effect the way you left?

    Yes

    No

    8.) If you were disfellowshipped for sin, did your feelings on the doctrine effect you sinning in the first place?

    I sinned because I thought the doctrine was wrong as an easy way out

    My feelings on the doctrine strongly effected my willingness to sin to get out

    My feelings on the doctrine somewhat effected my willingness to sin

    I sinned because I wanted to and doctrine had nothing to do with it

    N/A

    9.) Did you feel the religion was a cult before leaving?:

    I did not think they were a cult at all

    I saw a few similarities between the religion and a cult

    I saw many similarities between the religion and a cult

    I felt the religion was a cult by definition but a good religion which it didn’t apply

    I felt the religion was definitely a cult

    10.) Did you research the religion's teachings after leaving?

    Yes

    No

    11.) What are your feelings on the doctrine of the religion since leaving?

    I still feel the religion is the truth,

    The religion has some problems but only due to human imperfection,

    The religion has some problems with it’s teachings

    The religion has many problems with what it teaches

    The religion is like any other religion out there it has right and wrong in it

    The religion has a problem with nearly every teaching

    They might have one or two teachings that are still right if I strain hard enough to think about it

    They are totally wrong

    12.) How do you feel about the organization since leaving?:

    They're God's channel

    They might have a couple of problems

    They have some problems but far more good than bad

    There are many problems but they slightly outweigh the bad

    There are many problems which slightly outweigh the good

    There are many problems which far outweigh the good

    They are no different than any other religion they have good and bad

    They are Totally wrong

    They are evil

    13.) How do you feel about the people since leaving?:

    They're God's chosen people

    They are mostly good people

    They are good people with a few bad apples

    They have more good people than bad people

    They have more bad people than good people

    They are mostly bad people

    They are filled with liars and hypocrites

    They are no different than any other religion, they have good and bad

    They are misguided people and I feel sorry for them

    They are evil.

    14.) Do you feel the religion is a cult now after leaving?:

    Yes they are definitely a cult

    They have most of the qualities of a cult

    They have some of the qualities of a cult

    They have a couple of the qualities of a cult

    They have some similarities to cults but they’re good so I don’t consider them a cult

    All religions are cults so why would they be any different.

    They are not a cult

    15.) What is your opinion on the intelligence of those still in the Organization? :

    They're very intelligent they are the only people on Earth who found the truth

    They're somewhat intelligent

    They’re intelligent about biblical things but not so much in other things

    They're intelligent but purposely deny facts for their religion

    They are like idiot savants with the bible

    They're not very intelligent

    They're complete morons

    16.) Are you happier now that you’re gone?

    I think every day about how happy I am to have left

    I think I’m much happier now that I’m gone

    I think I’m somewhat happier now that I’m gone

    I’m slightly happier now that I’m gone

    I’m not happier now that I’m gone

    I was much happier as a Jehovah’s Witness

    I’m miserable now and wish I could return to turn around my life.

    17.) Do you feel that other than the fact you left the Jehovah’s Witnesses that they would agree with how you live your life?

    They would agree with everything in my life

    I do a few things they would not agree with

    I do quite a few things they would not agree with

    They would not agree with anything I do now

    18.) If a Jehovah’s Witness approaches you to discuss their religion you’re more than likely do the following:

    Oh God, run away as fast as possible

    Tell them I was raised a Jehovah’s Witness and feel they’re wrong

    Shatter their faith, what else would I do?

    Discuss in detail all the wrong things in their religion

    Give them a simple Not Interested

    Discuss their religion with them and take whatever they want to place, I remember being like that

    Tell them that I feel their religion is mostly right but not right for me

    Ask them for a bible study

    19.) Would you consider returning?

    I plan to return one day

    I wish I could return

    It’s more than likely I’ll return

    It’s fifty/fifty that I will return

    It’s possible I could return

    It’s not very likely I’ll return but I don’t rule out anything

    It’s nearly impossible I’ll return but I guess anything’s possible

    When hell freezes over

    If I ever see another Kingdom Hall it would be too soon

    20.) How do you feel about discussing your time as a Jehovah's Witness?:

    I Hate talking about my time as a Jehovah's Witness and will avoid the subject whenever possible

    I dislike talking about my upbringing strongly but will if absolutely necessary

    I dislike talking about my upbringing but will if prompted enough

    It's part of me I'll discuss it if it comes up

    I bring it up occasionally

    I’ll only talk about it with certain people who understand the circumstances

    I bring it up frequently

    I talk about it constantly

    Some Say I’m obsessed

    That's all, a simple 20 questions. Thanks so much for the help with this. I think this will have some really cool results, the sample has to be great otherwise you know any JW will just deny it as a biased sample.

    Thanks Everyone!

  • Black Sheep
    Black Sheep

    A.) Name: (First name only please)

    Chris

    B.) Gender

    Male

    C.) Age:

    56-60

    Questions:

    1.) How were you introduced to Jehovah's Witnesses:

    Parents/Grandparents/Relatives were in before you were born and taught you

    2.) How did you leave the religion:

    Stopped attending all at once

    3.) What Age did you leave?

    25-30

    4.) Were you Baptized

    No

    5.) What General reason did you leave the religion:

    Wanted more Freedom (play school sports, date who you wanted, listen to music, etc.)

    6.) How did you feel about the doctrine before leaving:

    Believed there were more things right than wrong

    7.) Did your feelings about the doctrine effect the way you left?

    No

    8.) If you were disfellowshipped for sin, did your feelings on the doctrine effect you sinning in the first place?

    N/A

    9.) Did you feel the religion was a cult before leaving?:

    I did not think they were a cult at all

    10.) Did you research the religion's teachings after leaving?

    No (Not for decades)

    11.) What are your feelings on the doctrine of the religion since leaving?

    They are totally wrong

    12.) How do you feel about the organization since leaving?:

    They are evil

    13.) How do you feel about the people since leaving?:

    They are misguided people and I feel sorry for them

    14.) Do you feel the religion is a cult now after leaving?:

    Yes they are definitely a cult

    15.) What is your opinion on the intelligence of those still in the Organization? :

    They're intelligent but purposely deny facts for their religion

    16.) Are you happier now that you’re gone?

    I think I’m much happier now that I’m gone

    17.) Do you feel that, other than the fact you left the Jehovah’s Witnesses, that they would agree with how you live your life?

    I do a few things they would not agree with

    18.) If a Jehovah’s Witness approaches you to discuss their religion you’re more than likely do the following:

    Shatter their faith, what else would I do?

    19.) Would you consider returning?

    If I ever see another Kingdom Hall it would be too soon

    20.) How do you feel about discussing your time as a Jehovah's Witness?:

    I bring it up occasionally

    Thanks for the hard work

    Chris

  • Mattieu
    Mattieu

    Tuesday, you have a pm.

    Mattieu

  • Tuesday
    Tuesday

    Thanks so much guys, the research begins :)

    I have this idea of how things are going to turn out, I have a feeling that doctrine has alot to do with people leaving much more than the religion says it does. I'll reserve a decision until all the results are in which I'm assuming will be a few months. I'd like to get at least 1000, I'm hoping for more like 2000.

    Thanks again guys.

    I look forward to everyone's responses :)

  • lisavegas420
    lisavegas420

    A.) Name: Lisa

    B.) Gender: Female

    C.) Age: 45-50

    Questions:

    1.) How were you introduced to Jehovah's Witnesses: Parents/Grandparents/Relatives were in before you were born and taught you

    2.) How did you leave the religion: Disfellowshipped; reinstated; disfellowshipped; reinstated, Stopped attending all at once(probably df'd)

    3.) What Age did you leave? 19-24 physically; 31-35 mentally

    4.) Were you Baptized; Yes at 15

    5.) What General reason did you leave the religion: Left for a boyfriend in the world, Fornicated, General Fornication & was involved with Drugs/Drinking; and wanted more Freedom date who you wanted, listen to music, etc. because I was Depressed, Didn’t feel like doing all the things required, felt oppressed by the rules. Rebelling against parents rules

    6.) How did you feel about the doctrine before leaving: Believed there we more things wrong than right so I Didn’t think about the doctrine

    7.) Did your feelings about the doctrine effect the way you left? Yes; but only because if it was true, I just return to dust. Didn't seem like such a big deal.

    8.) If you were disfellowshipped for sin, did your feelings on the doctrine effect you sinning in the first place? I sinned because I wanted to and doctrine had nothing to do with it

    9.) Did you feel the religion was a cult before leaving?: I saw many similarities between the religion and a cult

    10.) Did you research the religion's teachings after leaving? Yes after several years of waiting for the world to end.

    11.) What are your feelings on the doctrine of the religion since leaving? They are totally wrong

    12.) How do you feel about the organization since leaving?: They are totally wrong and They are evil

    13.) How do you feel about the people since leaving?: They are filled with liars and hypocrites. They are no different than any other religion, they have good and bad. They are misguided people and I feel sorry for them

    14.) Do you feel the religion is a cult now after leaving?: Yes they are definitely a cult. All religions are cults so why would they be any different.

    15.) What is your opinion on the intelligence of those still in the Organization? : They are like idiot savants with the bible; They're not very intelligent

    16.) Are you happier now that you’re gone? I think every day about how happy I am to have left

    17.) Do you feel that other than the fact you left the Jehovah’s Witnesses that they would agree with how you live your life? They would agree with everything in my life

    18.) If a Jehovah’s Witness approaches you to discuss their religion you’re more than likely do the following: Discuss their religion with them and take whatever they want to place, I remember being like that.

    19.) Would you consider returning? If I ever see another Kingdom Hall it would be too soon

    20.) How do you feel about discussing your time as a Jehovah's Witness?: It's part of me I'll discuss it if it comes up; I bring it up occas ionally.

    lisa

  • ataloa
    ataloa

    Tim, you have a pm.

  • isaacaustin
    isaacaustin

    Ex-Jehovah’s Witness Survey

    A.) Name: Isaac Austin

    B.) Gender

    Male

    C.) Age:

    31-35

    Questions:

    1.) How were you introduced to Jehovah's Witnesses:

    Parents/Grandparents/Relatives converted when you were young and taught you

    2.) How did you leave the religion:

    Faded Away (slowly missed more and more meetings until you stopped going completely)

    3.) What Age did you leave?

    'no longer an unbapt pub at age 15, was forced to go while living at home until i was 22

    4.) Were you Baptized

    No

    5.) What General reason did you leave the religion:

    Wanted more Freedom (play school sports, date who you wanted, listen to music, etc.)

    Didn’t believe the teachings, not allowed to question the teachings, disagreed with stance on social issues, didn’t agree with things said in the magazines or on the platform.

    Depressed, Didn’t feel like doing all the things required of you, felt oppressed by the rules.

    Rebelling against parents rules

    6.) How did you feel about the doctrine before leaving:

    Didn’t think about the doctrine

    7.) Did your feelings about the doctrine effect the way you left?

    No

    8.) If you were disfellowshipped for sin, did your feelings on the doctrine effect you sinning in the first place?

    N/A

    9.) Did you feel the religion was a cult before leaving?:

    I did not think they were a cult at all

    10.) Did you research the religion's teachings after leaving?

    Yes

    11.) What are your feelings on the doctrine of the religion since leaving?

    They are totally wrong

    12.) How do you feel about the organization since leaving?:

    They are Totally wrong

    They are evil

    13.) How do you feel about the people since leaving?:

    They are misguided people and I feel sorry for them

    14.) Do you feel the religion is a cult now after leaving?:

    Yes they are definitely a cult

    on the intelligence of those still in the Organization? :

    They're intelligent but purposely deny facts for their religion

    16.) Are you happier now that you’re gone?

    I think every day about how happy I am to have left

    17.) Do you feel that other than the fact you left the Jehovah’s Witnesses that they would agree with how you live your life?

    I do quite a few things they would not agree with

    18.) If a Jehovah’s Witness approaches you to discuss their religion you’re more than likely do the following:

    Shatter their faith, what else would I do?

    Discuss in detail all the wrong things in their religion

    19.) Would you consider returning?

    When hell freezes over

    If I ever see another Kingdom Hall it would be too soon

    20.) How do you feel about discussing your time as a Jehovah's Witness?:

    It's part of me I'll discuss it if it comes up

    I bring it up occasionally

    I’ll only talk about it with certain people who understand the circumstances

    General

  • under the radar
    under the radar

    Ex-Jehovah's Witness Survey

    General

    A.) Name: Mark

    B.) Gender: Male

    C.) Age: 56-60

    Questions:

    1.) How were you introduced to Jehovah's Witnesses: Parents/Grandparents/Relatives were in before you were born and taught you

    2.) How did you leave the religion: Stopped attending all at once

    3.) What Age did you leave? 45-50

    4.) Were you Baptized? Yes

    5.) What General reason did you leave the religion: Didn't believe the teachings, not allowed to question the teachings, disagreed with stance on social issues, didn't agree with things said in the magazines or on the platform.

    6.) How did you feel about the doctrine before leaving: Believed there were more things wrong than right

    7.) Did your feelings about the doctrine effect the way you left? Yes

    8.) If you were disfellowshipped for sin, did your feelings on the doctrine effect you sinning in the first place? N/A

    9.) Did you feel the religion was a cult before leaving? I saw many similarities between the religion and a cult

    10.) Did you research the religion's teachings after leaving? Yes

    11.) What are your feelings on the doctrine of the religion since leaving? The religion has a problem with nearly every teaching

    12.) How do you feel about the organization since leaving? They are no different than any other religion they have good and bad

    13.) How do you feel about the people since leaving?: They are good people with a few bad apples

    14.) Do you feel the religion is a cult now after leaving?: They have most of the qualities of a cult

    15.) What is your opinion on the intelligence of those still in the Organization? : They're intelligent but purposely deny facts for their religion

    16.) Are you happier now that you're gone? I think I'm much happier now that I'm gone

    17.) Do you feel that other than the fact you left the Jehovah's Witnesses that they would agree with how you live your life? I do a few things they would not agree with

    18.) If a Jehovah's Witness approaches you to discuss their religion you're more than likely do the following: Tell them I was raised a Jehovah's Witness and feel they're wrong

    19.) Would you consider returning? When hell freezes over

    20.) How do you feel about discussing your time as a Jehovah's Witness?: It's part of me I'll discuss it if it comes up

  • Heaven
    Heaven

    Ex-Jehovah's Witness Survey

    A.) Name: Heaven

    B.) Gender: Female

    C.) Age: 45-50

    Questions:

    1.) How were you introduced to Jehovah's Witnesses:

    Parents/Grandparents/Relatives were in before you were born and taught you

    2.) How did you leave the religion: After graduating from high school, I moved out of my childhood home to attend College in the city.

    3.) What Age did you leave? 19-24

    4.) Were you Baptized? No

    5.) What General reason did you leave the religion:

    Didn’t believe the teachings, not allowed to question the teachings, disagreed with stance on social issues, didn’t agree with things said in the magazines or on the platform.

    Felt the elders or organization abused their power, felt they took presidence over God, Problem with the way they organized the religion

    Other (Explain: My primary reason for leaving was that I disagreed with the whole concept of 'headship' and the subjugating of wives to husbands. I knew myself well enough to know that I would never be able to do this. )

    6.) How did you feel about the doctrine before leaving: Believed everything was wrong

    7.) Did your feelings about the doctrine effect the way you left? No

    8.) If you were disfellowshipped for sin, did your feelings on the doctrine effect you sinning in the first place? N/A

    9.) Did you feel the religion was a cult before leaving?: I did not think they were a cult at all ... because I was not aware of what constituted a cult. I now know they are.

    10.) Did you research the religion's teachings after leaving? Yes but not until many years had passed and I was actually looking at them to see if things had changed. They haven't.

    11.) What are your feelings on the doctrine of the religion since leaving? They are totally wrong

    12.) How do you feel about the organization since leaving?: They are Totally wrong

    13.) How do you feel about the people since leaving?: They are misguided people and I feel sorry for them

    14.) Do you feel the religion is a cult now after leaving?: Yes they are definitely a cult

    15.) What is your opinion on the intelligence of those still in the Organization? : Other: as with any group, you will have a variety of people with different levels of intelligence. Most JWs want what was/is promised to them and they are willing to turn a blind eye for this prize.

    16.) Are you happier now that you’re gone? I think know I’m much happier now that I’m gone

    17.) Do you feel that other than the fact you left the Jehovah’s Witnesses that they would agree with how you live your life? I do quite a few things they would not agree with

    18.) If a Jehovah’s Witness approaches you to discuss their religion you’re more than likely do the following:

    It depends on what mood I am in and whether I have time to engage with them. I may do the following:

    Tell them I was raised a Jehovah’s Witness and feel they’re wrong

    Discuss in detail all the wrong things in their religion

    Give them a simple Not Interested

    Other: Give real life family examples of how their beliefs did not work in my family.

    19.) Would you consider returning? Not even if hell freezes over -- ie. Never.

    20.) How do you feel about discussing your time as a Jehovah's Witness?: It's part of me I'll discuss it if it comes up

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