btw - if someone is prepared to call you then you KNOW they are not being dishonest - not hiding.
no, I don't *know* that, I think it is folly to give your phone number on-line to a stranger. Especially one you have no idea who they are. For all I knew you would be posting it all over with all sorts of suggestions. How would I know otherwise of a complete stranger who I have read little of their words and had never exchanged words with??
Still a truce it is msil.