I personally would be more concerned with the impression left upon your wife.
Indeed, JWoods. The issues at stake here may force my hand. Or not. I'm convinced that with time she would turn a blind eye to it all just the same as the rank-and-file turn a blind eye to the Society's behavior. So long as I go along with the corruption, which she may not appreciate in the short run. Wish I knew how to proceed. But I won't know that until I'm there.
I sure hope that if there's another life beyond this one, I pay more attention to good common sense details, like not joining cults and stuff.