Life is so short, before we know it...
Even in this day and age where homosexuality SEEMS to be more accepted I can't hope but wonder what it feels like to be openly gay, it is NOT the easy way out or an easy path, of that I have no doubts.
No one chooses to be gay because it will make their lives easier.
As a christian I beleive that love is the greatest gift that God has given us through his son Jesus and that love is for ALL of God's creations, regardless of sexual orientation or anything else. It may not be "my cup of tea", but its NOt about ME, its about someone being true to themselves and true to love.
Jeff, you are a strong man and have gone though much and in sharing with us you strenghten us, we become better people because of you.
I for one say Thank You.