.....IMHO....
...based on further private discussons....
His actions speak louder then his words.
He is new father and much is coming up emotionally regarding his new responsibilities as a father.
He personally really hasn't made the 'truth is own' rather these are his traditions from childhood.
But lets not lose sight of the fact the boy ain't been dunked, nor is considered an active Recognized Unbaptized Publisher. He is, I assume, living with Greenie out of wedlock with a child, so while he is fretting emotionally about b-days and such, he is still carrying on a life that is worldly, and while I think it is good not to rush into a marriage without properly planning ahead to lessen the conflict of said b-days and such, delaying the marriage under those circumstances is completely opposite of what the WTS would encourage in his situation...... just saying....
Greenie.... I will PM you tonight.
Hugs