... start over with friends?
I would like to suggest that we leave finding another church out of this, not because it isn't a good idea for our theistically minded friends. For those that choose to do so, it seems like they do alright, and that seems the easiest suggestion to make.
So if thats for you, consider me taking care of that as suggestion #1.
But what if you need a break from the whole church scene? Where else can you go, what else can you do, to make friends? Hang out with new groups?
We need the collective experience of what you have done, to help others who are just leaving.
And I include myself as one who would like some good suggestions too. :)