Thanks everyone for your comments,..... the bottom line seems to be instead of looking way off
into the distance we must take initiative to build a life for ourselves ; finding true friends who
actually appreciate who we are as a person (as a individual ). Then in addition to this (for some) like myself
is to look with faith also to a Divine being who again as with any true friends sees you as an individual.
Trust can be built again !
"To feel the answer.".. what feels right within ourselves. Also I remember a thought by Steve Hassan... the mind can be overwhelmed
by information (like implanted data ) at that point go with your "gut feeling"
As far as being a true friend to others yourself , this is an interesting thought ...
|To be trusted is a greater compliment than being loved.”|