I know plenty who are hounded by elders during courtship.
they marry between 3-9 months into it!
I know plenty of divorced.
one of my wifes friend lasted 2 weeks, and someone in my congo had a long distance relationship.... met the mate 5 times in a 6 month span.... divorced 6 months later!
aaaaaaaaaaah the witless long distance phenomenom set forth by international assemblies