Two years ago could you picture yourself with a wonderful non-Dub woman?
uh no. I did know her 3 years ago, but even 4 months ago when we started officially dating, we could not have imagined we would travel down this path so far so fast. We talked about that last night. We are also very comfortable with it. Toni is a better person than I could have ever imagined. Whd why the hell she puts up with me and the residuals of Dubworld I do not know...she is a very kind person...but she does have another side that says she tolerates no bs. Good.
This post itself, helps me see what an insult it is to use those terms.
which is why I posted the story.
Is Toni a member here yet? She should be. She should be asking us all of the questions she doesn't want to ask you.
She is not a member here yet, and she is welcome to read my posting history, esp the last 4 months, if she chooses. And yeah, some of what I have posted would make me uncomfortable if she read it.
Neither of us have a lot of time to be on here (or anywhere on the net). I have some extra time on my hands right now because a) I am done with school and b) my job is slow this week because our client is going through a computer billing system transition. I don't like working without proper support.
So why is it worth big drama if a JW calls someone "worldly", whereas it is totally OK to call JWs crazy, cultish, bastards, idiots etc.?
absolutely point taken. I do mess around with JW terms (gibbering buddy, wacktower, etc.) and do not hesitate to fire at the GB themselves. Individual JWs I try to not call crazy strictly based on being a dub.
sweetface...and considering that not only was I a brainwashed dub, but I was an elder to boot. Being judgemental and an ass came with the job description. It is also why I struggled with being a dub from around 95 until I left in 07. I did not beat to the same drum as many dubs. Nonetheless, I was as bad as some but not as bad as others. I can only apologize to those I hurt and move on. Your point is spot on, as is purps.
Now...gotta run, Toni just called..I am meeting her at work for lunch..
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