UK Mom Fined: "Grieving Too Long" at Son's Funeral

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  • Yizuman
    Yizuman

    A grieving mother in Britain was fined $173 for spending too long at her son's coffin before it was taken away for cremation.

    Terrie Rouse, 32, said her grief turned to shock when officials told her she had taken too long to say goodbye, The Daily Mail reported.

    "The vicar had asked if I would like to spend a bit more time saying goodbye," she said. "I sat by the coffin for 10 minutes, telling my son how much we loved him and begging him not to be scared."

    Officials at the crematorium, run by a local English council, impose an extra charge if any funeral runs over its 30-minute slot.

    However, the couple's funeral directors said there was plenty of time for the next funeral which was not due to take place for another 50 minutes.

    Rouse’s partner, Lee Smythe, said the fee was "sick and disgusting.""Terrie was weeping hysterically," he said. "She just wanted a few extra minutes to say goodbye to our much-loved little boy."

    The couple’s son, Zane, died at five weeks from Sudden Infant Death Syndrome on April 9.

    The family waited three months before they could have a funeral to allow for tests to be carried out.

    "It was distressing enough having to wait for the funeral because we were left in limbo, but this has just made it all worse," Smythe said.

    Source: http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,536594,00.html

    Those sick bastards. This Nanny State crap in the UK is getting weirder and worse at it. That's just mean spirited. :mad:

    Yiz

  • AWAKE&WATCHING
    AWAKE&WATCHING

    I'm calling it!!!

    BULLSHIT

    Unbelievable, truly heartless.

  • dinah
    dinah
    I'm calling it!!!
    BULLSHIT

    Robin, I've missed you

  • read good books
    read good books

    Well, they want to put cameras in the homes of some families in the UK to see if their taking good enough care of their children. I mean it is a Nanny state in the UK and becoming one in the US.

  • John Doe
    John Doe

    Hmm, at the top, it says she was fined, but later on, it says this: "Officials at the crematorium, run by a local English council, impose an extra charge if any funeral runs over its 30-minute slot."

    So, which was it? A charge and a fine are not the same thing.

  • nelly136
    nelly136

    it was a charge for extra time not a fine

    http://uk.news.yahoo.com/21/20090804/tuk-mum-fined-for-baby-funeral-goodbye-6323e80.html

    Officials from Milton Keynes Council, which runs the crematorium, routinely impose an extra charge if any funeral over runs its allocated half-hour slot. This is paid on top of the standard cremation fee.

    The council has now refunded the charge, because of "extenuating circumstances".

    A spokesman said: "We understand that sometimes more time may be preferred and so families are offered the chance to book extra time if they need it. This means when funerals that have not taken up this option over-run, a fee is automatically charged. However, when we learnt that there were extenuating circumstances we, of course, refunded the extra charge."

  • sammielee24
    sammielee24

    At least they revoked the fees thank goodness. That's heartless! As for the US becoming a nanny state maybe immaturity requires constant monitoring and if we'd had a little of that nanny in our financial sector, we wouldn't be broke and 15 trillion in debt now. Nanny = regulation and it's been proven time and again, that left to their own devices, humans will at some point be overcome by the corrupt and greedy unless kept in check. There's nanny with a little 'n'..and nanny with a big 'n'...and sometimes there are toddlers that throw a tantrum because they don't want any parameters in life at all. I'm just saying............sammieswife.

  • Witness 007
    Witness 007

    Like Witnesses who claim we should not grieve "too much" since we will be with them in Paradise very soon! Bullcrap!

  • artemis.design
    artemis.design

    NO NO NO NO NO. PLEASE DO NOT GET OBSESSED ABOUT THIS ISSUE. THE AMOUNT SHE WAS "FINED" WAS ABOUT $60. IT IS ANOTHER CASE OF THE MEDIA SENSATIONALISING A VERY ORDINARY EVENT. BRITISH PRESS IS ABSOLUTLY AWFUL FOR DOING THIS AND I DOUBT IT WOULD EVER HAPPEN IN THE US.

    USUALLY A FUNERAL IN THE UK COSTS £1000'S. BUT BECAUSE THEY WERE ON STATE BENEFITS, THEY ONLY HAD TO PAY A TINY FRACTION. THEY HAD TO PAY A SMALL FEE FOR OVER RUNNING (WHAT ABOUT THE FAMILY WAITING FOR THEM TO LEAVE). THERE WAS NO "FINE" INVOLVED.

    I AM SURE THIS HAS BEEN HAPPENING HUNDEREDS OF TIMES THROUGHOUT THE UK WITH NO ONE BLINKING AN EYE.

    YET ANOTHER EXAMPLE OF MEDIA MANIPULATION. DO NOT GET SUCKED IN BY UK PRESS!!!

  • artemis.design
    artemis.design

    P.S THE ONLY THING ABOUT THIS BEING AYTHING TO DO WITH BEING A NANNY STATE IS THAT THE MAJORITY OF THE FEES FOR THE FUNERAL WAS PAID BY THE STATE. IF THEY ACTUALLY HAD A JOB THE FUNERAL FEES CAN BE IN EXCESS OF £10,000 !!! NO $60. THEY SHOULD BE THANKFUL THAT WAS PAID FOR THEM RATHER THAN RUNNING TO THE MEDIA TO GET A BIT OF ATTENTION FOR THE TINY AMOUNT THEY DID HAVE TO PAY!!

    BLAME THE MEDIA! AH, THEY GET MY GOAT.

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