Left three years ago - did the fade away and managed to avoid getting dissed. Have been living with my boyfriend for a year and a half and am 9 wks pregnant, we are both very happy about it. I have been having a really hard time with the hormones and the morning sickness - cannot eat anything except crackers as it comes back up immediately and the slight smell of anything unsavoury sets me off.
My mum, dad and 2 sisters are active witnesses. Have not spoken to my mother for a month or so, the last time we spoke I found out my sister was getting married in August and I had not been invited (to be expected naturally, but a phone call letting me know what is happening would have been nice as my sister and I had recently been talking). When I spoke to my mum she blamed me for 'ruening' my sisters wedding (due to leaving the clan) so I have not made the effor to phone her since and she has not made the effort either.
So I feel as though I should tell her but am absolutely terrified of doing so, as I do not need the stress of a lecture regarding an illegitamite child. I do not see my family having any active involvement in my babies life and do not want them to witness to the child, so I am unsure why I am even thinking I should tell them?????????
What are your thoughts????