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flipper

WESTCOASTROCKS- Welcome to the board . I look forward to your posts. Sorry you are going through rough times right now. Just remember there are lots of folks here, including myself, that care and will steer you straight in educating yourself about the scam that is the witnesses. Hang in there, Peace out, Mr. Flipper

Farkel

My, my, my.

New Here,

I apologize for the "noise" that was generated on your very first post. Note to readers: the person who took the big crap on this thread is a true believer Jehovah's Witness, you know, those people who have so much LOVE for everyone?

Our true believer spouted judgment without knowing a single fact about the situation EXCEPT: the husband left her faith, is getting a divorce and wants custody of the child because he doesn't want the child to grow up and learn that it is perfectly acceptable to take craps on people before knowing all the facts as long as one remains a Jehovah's Witness.

I had a very bitter divorce, but knew my wife was a great mother and she knew I was a great father. We shared both joint legal AND joint physical custody. I never spoke poorly about her around our children and she never spoke poorly about me around them. We ended up on a very friendly basis after all the melodrama had died.

Brother New Here has a valid point: as a father, he has every bit as much right to guide the child in spiritual upbringing as the child's mother, and every bit as much right to present the "other point of view" when it comes to the Jehovah's Witness faith.

Perhaps some sort of amicable joint custody arrangement can be worked out. I don't know, because I know that I don't know all the facts.

When at all possible, a child should have access to the upbringing from both parents, even if one of them is a dub. Kids are smart. They are quick to figure things out. If the child is not allowed to be totally surrounded in only JW-think, the child should end up just fine.

Our true believer is a judgmental twit. No, that is not a judgment. It is a FACT and her posts are all the evidence I need to support it.

The biggest problem facing American society is NOT children who are raised with their fathers, but children who are raised WITHOUT their fathers.

Farkel

cawshun

Welcome. I'm happy you found your way out of the WT cult. I wish you all the best with your child.

cameo-d

Hey Renaai...

Why don't you suggest they split the baby in half?

If it was good enough advice for the 'wisest king that ever lived', shouldn't it be good enough for you?

The Almighty Homer

I'm in support to what Farkel has stated , there has to be a balanced compromise instituted by both parents on the up bringing of their children.

Just in thinking for the benefit of the child in the long run. It can be done I've seen it and the children eventually develop their own identity.

Good healthy parenting can be administered by both parents at the same time, the religion stuff can be sorted out down the road a day at a time.

All the best WESTCOAST to you and your child.

PS. If the child was older in age I would most likely sway in your direction,

Westcoastrocks

hmmm trying to take an extremely young child away from it's mum for her religious beliefs? I am glad most governments are not as predjudiced as you. Who presumably are so bitter and unloving to your wife that your heart would be so cruel.

Proverbs 6:18
a heart that devises wicked schemes, feet that are quick to rush into evil,

Reniaa

I can not tell if you are serious or not. You are assuming a great deal. I said a few sentences not near enough for you to make that amount of judgements. The reason why I am fighting for custody is because we all know that JW's will teach my son to shunn people who are not JW's. This is me, in fact I am a Apostate according to my wife so even the more so for her to keep my son away from me. If I get custody he will grow up loving his mother because he will have access to her, if he grows up with her that won't be the case for me.

Thanks for the welcomes guys!

Westcoastrocks

Oh I should have read all of the posts before posting lol. Sounds like Reniaa needs to take a chill pill. Or maybe she should take the Red pill and wake up, she isn't living in reality. Reniaa after I finish my story, not even you will be able to feel sorry for my crazy wife, or feel like my son is safe with her.

yknot

Remember whatever the outcome.....

You have the right to indoctrinate your child with your personal religious viewpoint as well as warnings about his mama's religion (as we all know she will do regarding your beliefs one way or another).

Be open to 'joint custody' too.

You are his father so if his mama gets sole custody you still can start combatting his potential shunning by openly discussing the overstepping of the WTS shunning policy with him throughout his life among other things.

.....ohhhh and WELCOME to the forum!!!....

OUTLAW

WCR..Reniaa is serious..She`s usually off topic..Like now.....But..She`s serious..

............................LOL!!...OUTLAW

Westcoastrocks

Beings people have brought up the blood issue already.... I know that there is a article out there that the Watchtower suggests you remove your children from the hospital if there is going to be a court ordered transfusion. My lawyer really would like to find this article. If you have a quote from it or you know the dates of have the pdf that would be great! I really need to prove in the custody case that I would be better to make the medical choices. I can't think of a single article that would help me as much as this one would. Thanks

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