Did you think adults were more mature when you were a kid?

by Wordlygirl 14 Replies latest jw experiences

  • Wordlygirl
    Wordlygirl

    I am 25 years old now and work in a manufacturing and distribution facility. When I was a kid, I always thought adults acted "old" and were usually wakled the straight and narrrow line. But now that I have been in the workplace for a few years, I am shocked at how "high school" things still are. In fact there is a song by a group called Bowling for Soup that has a song called "High School Never Ends" and it is so true.

    We have a large warehouse and it has about 25 material handler folks and when I go there to check on items that have been received, I am amused at the conversations I overhear. First, a lot of the guys there like to pretend they are gay and will say things like "Don't bend over like that Robert, my wifes away on a business trip." Or "I like that shirt Carlos, it fits so tight and highlights your pecks"

    Some of the guys will approach another worker and then fart and run off. Now in case you are assuming these are all young guys, that is not the case. They range from the early 20's to the late 50's and age seems to have little effect on how they behave other than the older ones call in "sick" less.

    What sparked me to write this was what happened yesterday. There is a couple who works here who have been seeing each other for a couple of years, but they go out of there way to hide it or at least make it not so obvious. Unfortunately everyone is pretty much aware of it and they do not seem to realize that. Anyhoo, their names are Rosa and Rich and yesterday I overheard one of them tell a coworker "What did Rosa say after giving oral to her boyfriend?" After the co-worker shrugged his shoulders, the other said "ooh, tastes Rich."

    Are adults like this everywhere?

    Wordlygirl.

  • SixofNine
    SixofNine

    Yes. In fact I'm pretty sure there's a joke in there about "Rosa" that would include the lines "where does Rich..." and "parks" and "...back of bus"; but I haven't found it quite yet.

    ps... welcome to the forum Wordgirl

  • sammielee24
    sammielee24

    Yes - definitely. I don't see too much of that kind of immaturity in anyone that I know of that's over 40 though. When I was young, your mother was supposed to look like your mother - she didn't try to be your sister. There just wasn't that competition going on and we actually respected our parents because they were older..now, just watch the television ads and note how many times they depict dad as a doofus and mom as a hot 50 year old wearing the same clothes as her 20 year old. Add in the fact that there was more integrity in discussing and displaying our personal habits or necessities which resulted in more respect for your body and it's functions - now, you can be eating to the tunes of a Viagara commercial, a 'body oil'..KY Jelly commercial, tampon commercial, diarrhea commercial or the sounds of a woman having an orgasm while she shampoos her hair. All of that has contributed to the disappearing barriers of what is acceptable, what is respectful and as generations are raised on sloppy behavior, they become sloppy, immature adults. Not all - but some. sammieswife.

  • snowbird
    snowbird

    I sooooo agree, SammiesWife.

    After listening to a commercial for Cialis, my 11-year old g'son asked, "What is ED?"

    I told him he would have to ask his dad.

    Naturally, that piqued his interest even more.

    Sometimes, I wish I could retreat into yesteryear.

    Sylvia

  • B_Deserter
    B_Deserter

    I think so. Remember, yesterdays hippies are today's senior citizens.

  • Mad Dawg
    Mad Dawg

    When I was a kid, people generally didn't say certain words in public. Or if they did, it was not in front of women or children. It never ceases to amaze me to see people with four letter words emblazoned across their shirt or hat. Then there are those who hang those oversized rubber balls from the back bumper of their trucks. These people supposedly think it is funny, it strikes me as having no class.

  • Quirky1
    Quirky1

    Shit, if you could see my adult family you would think they still haven't grown up...

  • mrsjones5
    mrsjones5

    When I was a kid I thought they were. Then I grew up and found out the real truth about mature folks...quite a few are just big kids.

  • Snoozy
    Snoozy

    As a teen I thought adults were more mature (boring) but I felt like I knew as much or more than they did..boy was I wrong..

    As I grew older I realized how wonderful my parents were,(non JW's) one thing that's stands out that they taught me was to have respect for others..something that is very important to me ..and something that doesn't seem to exist today...

    Snoozy

  • JimmyPage
    JimmyPage

    I have worked in a "professional" environment for 14 years. Once I started my job it didn't take me long to figure out how unprofessional everyone really acts. I don't mind sophomoric humor, I think it makes working more fun. But I could definitely do without it when adults act like kids in more serious ways. It's like they never had any kind of training at all when they were young- yet they should know better anyway. It definitely gets old, but it seems to be that way everywhere.

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