Isn't this a discussion to have with God not the Jehovah's witnesses?
Renia, you are right. Could you please ask God for me? BTW, I see you are troubled with this issue too.
What I see from this topic, is that in many issues are not black/white and we are not able to get 100% answer to so many questions. And we should be humble enough to admit that.
What I hate on JWs, is that they are convinced they are able to give you 100% answer on any issue, give 100% explanation on any Bible text, and tell you what exatly God wants you to do. (It is allways 100% clear, they just change it every couple of years and then it again is 100% clear...)
But if you look in the Bible and then see real life - there is so many ilogical issues and so many contradictions...
You are right: Bible in some places stricly condemns homosexuality. But, in fact God created homosexuality... It doesnt make sense ... like many other things in the Bible. Let us be less dogmatic and more humble (towards the Bible, this world and Universe...)