Ok so once again I was thinking (damn I know I should stop doing that!) and this is what I was thinking about!
The JW religion is very much like a drug. You put your life on hold you lose interest in important things all for the feeling that everything is alright and that it's going to be ok. You are told over and over that this life isn't REAL that the REAL life is when your with the friends and your high on fellowship and groovin' on Jehovah. You give all your money, all your time, all your passion to this drug that makes you feel so good so superior. Everyone on the outside who's NOT high on watchtower can see that it's a waste can see the damage your doing to yourself your family your life etc. But not you. If they have an intervention and try to talk to you you run away or cover your ears or say 'they are just out to get me!'
The big difference is that many who abuse drugs lose their families where as when we gave UP the drug we lost our families... Weird! However people on drugs have instant friends. Not real friends of course but an instant social network of dealers and fellow druggies an entire social network with it's own rules and laws (just like JW's) you have instant friends where ever you go. An addict can go to a new city and find the right club and he's an instant hit with those who are partaking of the same drug. A JW can go to the local KH and he's an instant hit with those partaking in the JW drug!
I don't know, just seems... Weird... Alice in wonderland type stuff when you think about it!