What Were Your Consequences For Leaving The "Truth"???

by minimus 51 Replies latest jw friends

  • blondie
    blondie

    It's been all good, like leaving an abusive parent/husband. I wish I had done it sooner.

  • minimus
    minimus

    The vast majority of people have no idea what a JW on his way out will have to deal with. That's why some can't leave, they'd go nuts.

  • Finally-Free
    Finally-Free

    I've become a demonized celebrator of birthdays, eater of chocolate bunnies, and erector of Christmas trees. I lost a wife too.

    Wait a minute! These are all good things!

    W

  • Homerovah the Almighty
  • OUTLAW
    OUTLAW

    It`s not the outside world that makes you suffer,or trys to ruin your life when you leave the WBT$.....It`s the WTB$ and thier Brain Dead Cult,the Jehovah`s Witness`s that try to punish you for leaving.....The outside world is a paradise,compared to the Shit Hole the WBT$ provides..........................................OUTLAW

  • passwordprotected
    passwordprotected

    It can be rough. We've lost many friends, but made many more. We've lost family members and we know that our JW family are listening to - and at times spreading - lies about us.

    But it's worth it.

  • wobble
    wobble

    I am HAPPY now,though witlesses would not believe that possible,I am at peace with God,Jesus is my Lord and friend,and I have only lost what was not worth keeping,I view what Ihave left as "a lot of refuse"

    My only regret is that i did not wake up earlier.

    Love

    Wobble

  • ninja
    ninja

    hardly any.....signed .....the teflon apostate

  • happpyexjw
    happpyexjw

    I agree with the posters who say they regret not leaving sooner. It was not easy since I also lost virtually all of my "friends" and most of my family, although my kids eventually left themselves and we are all friends now. It was scary at first because I was very naive about the real world and did not have an education, but I made a couple of good new friends, (one of whom I later married) who encouraged me and helped me out. Looking back I have no regrets and believe that the difficulties helped me to grow up. I am much happier and better balanced now than I ever was as a JW.

  • Magwitch
    Magwitch

    • Abandoned by abusive elder husband
    • gained full custody of two daughters
    • met love of my life 3 years ago
    • have great sex
    • no longer addicted to pain killers
    • no longer drink
    • travel lots
    • have more money
    • have more time
    • gained back relationship with apostate siblings
    • have interesting friends
    • lost boring witness friends

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