Well I don't know what all the nice guy/bad boy talk really means, but I think it's pretty damn simple for this woman. I like a guy who is quick witted, funny, confident, strong, RESPONSIBLE, caring, respectful, honest, affectionate, kisses me on the back of the neck when I'm cooking, and not afraid I'm gonna break in the sak
Couple things my guy's done that really impressed me. I went out to my car after a long tiring day at work, knowing that I had to fight traffic and get to a gas station before I went home and cooked dinner for the kids. My tank was full. He had stopped by my job and filled it up. He bought milk without me asking him. I never had someone who noticed things that needed done, and did them before. I was on a total Tuscany kick at one point, and he came home with a Tuscany cookbook. Just today, he came home from Christmas shopping, and had a little universal remote for my kitchen tv/dvd player, because I lost it in the move and I'm in there making cookies today. He took me to the opera, because I love it, he doesn't. Same for the ballet, and it was all his idea. One of my favorite Christmas presents, was a personalized romance novel where we were the main characters. It's thoughtfulness, not weakness. It's mutual respect.
Now you boys may be familiar with girls who are more impressed with fancy restaurants and designer handbags and expensive jewelry. Good luck.