You know your marriage is over when... (page 3)

mtsgrad

I have come to conclusion you can love someone so much they don't appreciate you.

mtsgrad

Robdar

I have come to conclusion you can love someone so much they don't appreciate you.

Or, they do not love you back. It takes two to make a relationship work. It doesn't matter how much you love sombody, if they do not love you back, they will not work with you to keep the relationship together.

If you want a better relationship, you have to put this one behind you. It is better to realize this while you are still young and others still find you sexy.

SPAZnik

... one of you taps out.

Awakened at Gilead

I'm with Ooomps, 7 months of no lovemaking would be way too much, but 7 years?

You also know when they don't want to do their share of responsibilities...

In my case, both of us worked full time. But:

I did all the cooking, most of the cleaning, the laundry, and paid 90% of the household bills. No joke, my wife cooked for me I think twice in our last year together. She didn't even know how to use the laundry machine (until I stopped washing her clothes, and she was forced to learn). Sex was terrible and sometimes non-existent for months at a time. When I left JWs, breaking up was the right thing for me to do. It took me a few months to finally accept that... but...

My life is so much happier now.... my new gf is not perfect, nor am I, but we have so much in common and we make great music together!

Get out while the going is good...

caliber

You know your marriage is over when you do not care anymore. You know your marriage is over when you do not want to be botheredanymore. You know your marriage is over, when you do not cry anymore. You know your marriage is over when you do not share anymore. This is just a few steps to understanding a marriage is over. First, when you are being victimize by your spouse, your marriage is over. When you are not supported by your spouse, your marriage is over. When you are abused by your spouse, your marriage is over. When you are constanly being cheated on your marriage is over. Second, When you start making excuses for your spouse behavior, something is wrong. When you start being neglected something is wrong. When you are battered something is wrong. When you start taking whatever is dished out something is wrong. When you start letting yourself go and letting the other mate take the show, something is wrong

When respect and communication are gone. When there is no more natural love, kindness and compassion !

Caliber

mtsgrad

Newborn

your husband isolates you from friends and family - not even your parents can come and visit and stay over
My family had disowned me from childhood
don't let you use the car (not even in service or to meetings)- which you are, btw, paying for...
I pay for mortgage and wife refuses to work
doesn't allow you to listen to the music you like at home and not watch TV as you want
Wife has hidden remote control despite me letting her watch 95% of the programs she wants without interference
i.e doesn't allow you to be yourself
I do not remember who I am anymore. I go around calling myself "mtsgrad"
doesn't work (isn't that in itself a scriptual reason for divorce?)
Ditto. sadly he'll have to have an affair
sleeps all day and watches movies and play TV-games all night
Ditto
treats you like a child-tells you to wash your hands EVERY time you comes home (he suffers from bacteria fobia among other things)
That is freaky (he must be unwell)
never thinks you are enough or does enough
To true
takes you for granted
Yep
says he never should have married you in the first place
Yep
no sex life
My lack of sex is legendary
don't treat you with respect in front of others
Been there done that
makes you feel stupid and in-attractive
I now believe that I am responsible how I feel (though it is really tuff when you are treated so badly by a lover of Jehovah)
in-active as JW for many many years - the ironi of it is that since I left him he's never been so active, which of course is understandable since he'd only had me (another scriptual reason for divorce?)
Wife sped up when I faded. No he still need to have an affair (tho he sounds to lazy)
etc etc, the list can go on and on......
and on and on and on..

Newborn. I reckon we should swap partners. I am serious!

mtsgrad

momzcrazy

My friend asked her husband of 24 years if he minded her going to Hawaii with their grown daughter for three months. He answered, "Why do I care what you do?" He is also a MS who looks at bestaility porn on the computer.

mtsgrad

Bestiality porn. Wtf literally?

momzcrazy

Yeah, literally. It has progressed from young (over 18, yet young) girls, then men on men, now it is bestiality. She has monitored it for 3 years. She faded about 4 years ago. They live seperate lives in the same house. For the life of me, I can't understand why she has stayed so long.

I hope she meets someone wonderful in Hawaii. She's hot, sweet and smart. Way too good for him!

mtsgrad

have you got her number?

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