Just to clarify, I am against child abuse and also against spanking children to shut them up. Children were not meant to sit for 2+ hours like little adults. However I will say that I believe there is a place for moderate corporal punishment when it comes to raising some children. I have observed that often parents have lost control over their children, and see it everyday in restaurants, grocery stores etc. This was almost unheard of years ago when children had more respect for adults in general.
In the USA, spankings are not illegal as they are in the EU. Beating your child with an object is, but mild corporal punishment is not. Popular opinion is that spanking your child is unhealthy. I know many people who were spanked as children(when deserved), and now appreciate the dicipline. I know that some children have been successfully raised without corporal punishment, and many who have been punished this way have not been raised successfully, however I believe there is a place for it.
I was spanked very rarely as a child, but in the back of my mind I knew there were certain things I could not say or do without consequences. I would never dream of telling my mom or dad to shut up, or slapping them in the face.. Things I now see on a regular basis. Ironically, often these same children grow up with little to no respect for authority, which often lands them in trouble with the police who regularly taze and beat people. When punishment comes in the form of a filthy jail, or police brutality, I dont hear the outrage. Maybe in some cases this could have been avoided by firmer parenting. Most children I know do not even have a bedtime anymore, that is too "mean" too.
I have literally seen kids throwing items off the shelf at the store, screaming demanding sweets, only to see the parents give in, thus reinforcing the behavior. I would have been spanked, and not gotten any sweets for a week. Which is more of a deterrent?
In my observation, children are growing worse and worse in their lack of respect for parents, teachers, and adults in general. This coincides with a more lax parenting style. When kids were raised in the 50s under a more strict style, were their children more productive, harder working, and respectful than the ones we see today? Can anyone answer that the children today are better behaved and more respectful? Look at the fruits of parenting styles and see which are rotten.
Again to clarify I am NOT for children being punished for not being able to sit still perfectly for 2+ hours. I am for raising balanced, respectful, happy, well mannered children. Some parents are abusive and cruel and this should be adressed as another matter entirely.