OK, I'm back. Got home from work. Thanks for all the comments. I appreciate that you took the time to write.
I kind of went crazy on Sunday and started that Yahoo group -- but I've disbanded the "party of one." So the link is no longer any good. (Couldn't figure out how to edit/delete it in the post.) And it seems there are lots of other resources for those who are XJW-Lite.
Hey, you're a sweetheart Auntie Momz. (Isn't that a movie?) I'll send you a birthday card.
There were some other nice response, like from Spaghetti-Man -- thanks for the kind PMs (is that what they're called? Sounds like something female to me.)
Wish I had written down peoples' names to personally respond but ...