Ok here's the situation I know of.
A women was in a situation where she was forced to reveal a hidden sin and was given a private reproof for it. Before this she had an other wise clean slate. BTW the reproof was for an unrelated matter and had nothing to do with apostasy. Around this same time she was also learning about TTATT. The stress of the reproof, the treatment she received, plus TTATT meant she walked out of the KH 6 months later.
She has never verbalized the reason for her leaving was for apostasy, but I'm guessing the reason most think she left was for the private reproof. The question she has is. So far she hasn't had one elders visit, and no one has made enquiries. Although she thinks it's great she can't help but be puzzled by this behaviour. Other than not wanting to have anything to do with the JWs (she has never verbalized this) there is nothing that they could disfellowship her for. So what's the deal with the elders have they secretly disfellowshipped her and just written her off as a lost cause they can't be bothered with. It been almost 3 years since she left. Any thoughts please.