My worst day in service was the day I knocked on an old girlfriend's door. We had dated secretly back in the 11th grade and it had been pretty torrid. She was a gorgeous little Latina with the biggest boobs I have seen to date. She had no idea that I was raised a jw and now four years later I am knocking at her door of a crummy apartment she shared with her 4 year old son. The baby was not mine, but she saw me in a suit and figured I was there to reconnect and impress her with my threads and a good job to support her.
Imagine my hooror as she wrapped her arms around me in front of the service overlord and told me how much she missed me. Well actually she said..."Oh baby I sure have MISSEDEDED you!" The overlord sees this messy apartment and young woman in sheer attire. I was called tot he back room that afternoon!! My folks got called in. So here I am having to deny parenting and abandoning a young child. REPROACHING!! Never mind that I had been baptized less than a year and the baby was about 4.
All they were concerned about was how Jah had been smeared by my loose conduct. My folks told the service overlord and the boe that they saw no reason to have a meeting and we went home. I actually tried to start a study with her, and they assigned her to a pioneer sister. She never opened the door for the sister! LOL Thankk goodness. Anyway, it was an awfully scary day!