I have no problem with the way people look, as long as they got decent teeth - that is my thing and I cannot in any way date someone with horrible teeth. I have seen unattractive men and women with good looking partners.
Layla your experience also struck a cord with me. I had a collegue who was older than me, and she had some terrible burns on her body, not many people wanted to work with her, go out with her socially, but since we worked together quite closely we got to be friends and many people would speak behind her back, sometimes she heard and though she said it didn't bother her, I knew it hurt. I would go to those very people (without her knowing) and give them a piece of my mind about how shallow they were.
I also have an extremely overweight friend. She is a blast & love her to bits. One night we were at quite a larny function and this one table of men & women in their mid 30s' made comments as she walked past their table. I got my butt out of that chair so quickly and confronted them all.
Obviously a good looking, well built man is very pleasing to look at. But there is more to it than just the shell especially if you going to get into a long relationship.