I have spent lots of time on this one myself since finding out the JW's are just a cult. I am wary of religious organisations now so the worst thing I can do IMO is dive straight into one. I think for some of us there is a tendency to want to belong somewhere after being a JW. I feel it is better to take time to heal and get to know myself. I am conscious of my spiritual need but this is a more personal relationship with God now. I have been to a Christian church a couple of times and found the people there relaxed and friendly, but I don't make a habit of it.
Maddie