hey rav this is a damn good question. they only want to judge you so talking to them is a waste of time and they got no right to say you have left anyone... thats between you and god. silence is their permission to df you without any further ado...... they like it that way.
i told my grandmother that when they come to her house to play dumb and they will leave her alone. they wont take the time to come visit her often because they dont really care they just want to appear to care.
you guys know you wont ever go back and i like some of the suggestions to put it back on them or make them go on the defensive.
lol best idea i got is for you to say that you are dealing with hard finacial problems and then hit them up for money............. and repeat every time you hear from them or see them.............. they will so RUN AWAY. lol