Turning 30 was the worst. I dreaded it, and felt so old when I turned finally. I thought 40 would be just as bad, but surprisingly, it was a breeze. I actually had FUN on my birthday! I think it didn't bother me as much because I'm more comfortable with who I am now. Age is just a number, and like the cliche...it beats the alternative. : ) I certainly don't feel like I'm 40!