Finally called my DF'ed sibling. Thanks JWDers for the nudge.

freedomloverr

good for you openmind.

I remember some of those phone calls also. I felt so ashamed for the way I had treated these people that were my family.

of course they opened me back with open arms also.

I'm so glad you are lining up your allies.
Madame Quixote

Congrats, Open Mind! I was hoping it was someone in my family. Oh, well, maybe another day! I hope you and your brother get caught up and can help each other in your recoveries! What a gift and blessing for you BOTH! You are so lucky to have such a loving, forgiving brother.
sass_my_frass

That's such fantastic news, I'm really happy for you, and more so for him. He would have had the best night after your phone call. Imagine what he'd tell his mates!