Would anyone want to discuss the fact that the New Testament is full of scriptures regarding the urgency of the times?
I don't have any problem with that concept at all. Even the manipulation part. Jesus was a manipulator too. He made people feel guilty about their money. He advised people to sell their belongings and follow him in the preaching work.
And do you really put your life on hold? How do you do that? Is marrying the wrong person - putting your life on hold? Many people build their life around an idea and find out later it was a "bad" idea.
Basically, people can't put their life on hold because time keeps movin on. Those who lived the witness life and made the witness type sacrifices were still living "their" lives.
What about the people who die in useless wars? What about the nuns and priests that sacrifice their sexual pleasure? What about the starving artist who simply "starves" and never achieves fame or fortune?
JW's are just another group recruiting people into their dream world. It happens all the time, everywhere. At least they have the experience of a group who shared their dream.
And now those who have opted out of that dream have the pleasure of sharing their life experiences with others of similar experience.
And then we die. So what!
And then there's the problem with living on the North Side of Chicago and being a Cubs Fan. Next year. Next year. Next year.