Didn't see your post until now since the site was down.....
Sounds as if you were found out.....My parents reacted the same way after snooping in my Diary. And thats what your parents did...snoop.
There needs to be a some "outrage" for that bad behavior!
How are your grades with Home Schooling? Have you looked into "Pell Grants"....they pay up to about $4000.00 then the State starts kicking in for college expenses.....although you need to know figures from you parent's tax returns last year. (2006)
Don't waste time, speak your mind and get going with your life......Thats my advice because the longer you play this game the harder it gets.
Do you have any relatives that are non JW's that would be willing to take you in?
Be prepared for some strange Meeting with the elders unbeknownst to you.
Thinking of you dear and hope you are ok!