I've recieved some feedback about doing dating tips here on JWD, and so I've decided to go ahead with it.
A lot of what I will be posting may appear to be a bit sexist, and it defeats a lot of what feminism stands for, but what I post is what I find WORKS. I'm not going to post a bunch of re-hashed garbage that society THINKS should be the standards for dating, because most of it doesn't get results. All of what I post is going to be from personal experience. I may post relevant writings from other people to support or enhance what I've written (with proper credit to the original author, of course).
The WTS made all of you inept at social interaction. You didn't need friends because the WTS already made them for you. You didn't need to date a lot of women, because all you really required was a woman who was "spiritually healthy". Changing these conditions and beliefs won't happen overnight, but the good news is you're probably just as clueless as most other men out there who have never been JWs.
You're going to find that if you decide to apply this stuff IRL (in real life), you're going to experience a lot of nervousness, intimidation, and uncomfortableness. This is normal as it requires you to go outside of your comfort zone. Just like when you gave your first few talks from the platform in the Theocratic Ministry School, these feelings will go away with time, practice, and experience.
None of the things I will be posting are tricks nor quick fixes that will instantly get you myriads of myriads of women. Just as none of you left the JWs after one day or one doubt, you also will NOT be pimps after learning one tip or technique. I'm also posting things that do not require the use of a wingman. I've never used a wingman, and they're not essential when it comes to attracting women.
All of what I'm posting will help aid you to amplify your good qualities that women find attractive, such as confidence and your sense of humor. Essentially, it IS self-improvement, not a fake personality like the one you had to put on at the Kingdom Hall.
The most important thing: In order to get results, you HAVE to do the work, and you're going to make a lot of mistakes before you become successful. Becoming better with women isn't as easy as 1-2-3 in the beginning. However, once you get some experience under your belt, it will get easier. Also, if you want a head start, make comparisons from what I post to your previous experience with women, including the ones you never dated. If you can see why your past relationships (or attempts at relationships) didn't work, you will gain experience from them.
Glossary of abbreviations and terms I may use in my posts:
AFC - Average Frustrated Chump. In other words, the average guy who goes along with social standards when it comes to dating.
IRL - In Real Life
STR - Short Term Relationship. A relationship that lasts anywhere between two dates and six months.
LTR - Long Term Relationship. A relationship that lasts anywhere between two months and the rest of your life.
LDR - Long Distance Relationship
ONS - One Night Stand
Neg Hit - An insult disguised as a compliment. Example: "That's a nice wooly purse! Did your grandma knit that?"
IL - Interest Level. How interested she is in you.
Social Proof (aka Pivot) - Associating with other men and women to attract a woman.
Kino - Kinesthetics. Non-Sexual Touch.
Shit Test - When a woman tests your confidence and your ability to stand up for yourself.
Cockblock - A person who is interfering or working against your advances on a woman
LJBF - Let's Just Be Friends
One-itis - A disease where a man is infatuated with a woman whom he is not and will never date (again).
ASD - Anti-Slut Defense. When a woman suddenly becomes unco-operative to your advances to have sex with her.
I realize that I will likely be offending some people (most likely women) with the stuff I will be posting. This is your fore-warning now. If you don't like it, simply don't read it.
If you women want me to give you tips on how to attract men, I can sum most of it up in just three words - LOOK YOUR BEST! I'll get deeper into the subject of why women NEED to look their best when they're attracting men.
Anyway, that should just about do it! Make way for lesson number 1.1!