we are facing the same problem my family have announced they are giving the wts whatever they have left. now they have children, neither of their children are currently active. Wonder how this is going to play out?
I have members of my family that stopped attending years ago and are well regared by cong and family. My family will not speak tot me b/c i am not attending.
also, a jws sister i converse with frequently well has suddenly become really cold and odd. i think she may be recording our conversations so i'm being really careful.
I was told by an elder recently that any jws can view any inactive jws as a DA person. they can decide for thmeselves. they can mark anyone or shun anyone. they just make up the rules as they go. If you are lucky your fmaily is tight and they won't do this, but most are being pressured and not talking to family.
if these dumb arse people think this will inspire me to return to the KH, hell will freeze over before that would happen.
this won't work, there are a lotof us. they can only be super righteous for so long, b/c the 'friends' don'tsupport each other, they just let you hang out to dry. The parents who are shunning their kids will eventualy stop b/c of necessity.