by Chasity1 33 Replies latest jw friends
I think the third cord is really the Watchtower Society.
Exactly right! Interfering with things they have no right to be involved in! Unfortunately often the WTS is the more dominant partner in the relationship, asserting its wishes on one or both partner, rather than the couple having respect for each other to discuss things between themselves.
CS 101
We removed the picture of my mother-in-law from my wifes' dresser in the bedroom. Seems even that intrusion was inhibiting. Can't imagine Jehovah as a voyeur!!
carmel who made it 43 years married to the same woman without the Big J involved.
I always told my wife that there are plenty of marriages out in the world that are very happy.
As a matter of fact if you check statistics, atheist have a higher success in their marriage, without God,
So called Christian which include JW's and born again fail miserably
Percentage wise, marriages are probabbly more succesful outside of the org. They are CERTAINLY more happy. Most dubs I know, (if not divorced), are NOT happy in thier marriage. They married because they HAD to, they stayed together because they HAD to. That's it. It dosen't work, period. My second time around (to my "worldy" fiance), promises to be infinately happier than my jw marriage ever was.
j
I left the JW's and married an unbeliever. 6 years and the honeymoon is still going strong. I couldn't be happier. Don't need no 'third string'
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"carmel who made it 43 years married to the same woman without the Big J involved." You walk into the room With your pencil in your hand You see somebody naked And you say, "Who is that man?" You try so hard But you don't understand Just what you'll say When you get home But you don't know what it is Do you, Mister Jones? And you ask, "Is this where it is?" And somebody points to you and says "It's his" And you say, "What's mine?" And somebody else says, "Where what is?" And you say, "Oh my God Am I here all alone?" But you don't know what it is Do you, Mister Jones? And you go watch the geek Who immediately walks up to you When he hears you speak And says, "How does it feel To be such a freak?" And you say, "Impossible" As he hands you a bone But you don't know what it is Do you, Mister Jones? Among the lumberjacks To get you facts When someone attacks your imagination But nobody has any respect Anyway they already expect you To just give a check To tax-deductible charity organizations And they've all liked your looks With great lawyers you have Discussed lepers and crooks You've been through all of F. Scott Fitzgerald's books You're very well read It's well known But you don't know what it is Do you, Mister Jones? And then he kneels He crosses himself And then he clicks his high heels And without further notice He asks you how it feels And he says, "Here is your throat back Thanks for the loan" But you don't know what it is Do you, Mister Jones? Shouting the word "NOW" And you say, "For what reason?" And he says, "How?" And you say, "What does this mean?" And he screams back, "You're a cow Give me some milk Or else go home" But you don't know what it is Do you, Mister Jones? Like a camel and then you frown You put your eyes in your pocket And your nose on the ground There ought to be a law Against you comin' around You should be made To wear earphones But you don't know what it is Do you, Mister Jones? (bob dylan, ballad of a thin man) |
most jw marriage start with a proposal like this
two chaperoned teens sitting on moms sofa
" lets get married so we can have sex"
"ok"
I left "the truth" in about 95'. Before that, my wife and I argued and bitched at each other quite often. Since I left the "truth" and Jehovah, we don't argue and fight anymore. I guess jehovah made more of a knot in our marriage rather than a binding third cord.
Gumby
Dear Chastity
You are blasphemous, rude, caustic and too damn outspoken for your own good.
You are now my best friend
Let me know if you ever get a response to that letter!
Hi all. Well I got a reaction out of them. Funny thing is I got a reaction from my ex husband as well. I had him served with divorce papers at work. So I have been waiting from all 3 to blast away at me and it finally happened on the same day too. It sure took my ex husband long enough.
Lets start with mom.
CHASITY DON'T YOU EVER SEND ME APOSTATE WEBSITES AGAIN. I WILL NOT READ THAT TRASH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
That is all she said. So I replied:
You still did not answer my question. Is it because you know a JW marriage is just as likely to fail as a marriage in the big bad "world".
My sister
A certain scripture comes to mind about not throwing pearls before swine........think about it Chas.....that's what apostates are Chasity.....swine.
My reply
I rather be a pig than a user and manipulator. I wrote all about you on this website. Read all about it.
http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/6/81120/1825054/post.ashx#1825054
What does Jehovah think of this???
No reply as of yet and I don't expect one.
And my ex husband. I won't copy/paste the things he wrote to me but bottom line he went from being really angry at me to completely feeling sorry for himself and its all my fault our marriage is the way it is and he will not give me a divorce. He says he will fight it and wants me to take him back. Not happening. I told him to get a lawyer. If my mom or sister reply I will post it.
