If a woman looks like a slut she will be treated like one.
I wasn't stating that she dress like a slut. I was stating that she dresses sexy. Some women seem to feel that dressing sexy = dressing slutty. They're not essentially the same thing.
Do you view ALL women who dress sexy as sluts?
Excuse me but men ask me out quite a bit. They also asked me out when I was with an on-line dating service. One of the guys I am dating says that he asked me out because he thought I was cute, intelligent and seemed like fun. And most importantly, I laughed at his jokes. We have a good time but he isn't the one and so I do not date him exclusively.
Any guy that I've asked out has fizzled after a couple of dates.
I really would like to know the difference between these two experiences. You didn't stay exclusively with ANY of these guys, so why is there a bias to who asks who out?
I personally like it when a woman asks me out. It means she's got taste :)
Now, to disprove your theory on women asking the guy out, my wife was the one who asked me out first (even though I was ready to do it myself).
Why lose out on an opportunity just because of a couple of bad experiences? If I did that, I'd be making love to my pillow for the rest of my life. When you go out to a couple of job interviews and don't get the job, do you just give up? NO! You go out to more job interviews until you land one!
Robdar, you just may have exceptionally appealing looks. Some women may not be so lucky, so they have to work a bit harder to get some attention. Your experience with men may not be the same as other women's success (or lack of success) simply because they look different.