So sorry, merry for you and your mom. Just don't let the assholes get you down. They should remember that Jesus touched the leper, healed the woman with a blood flow, did healing miracles/resurrections on non-Jews, and told the touching account of the prodigal son...all things they should remember if they are imitating Christ in dealing with DF'd people.
Your posts always make me think or make me smile. Your good example will be wonderful for your daughter to see.