No Natural Affection

by misspeaches 34 Replies latest jw friends

  • misspeaches
    misspeaches

    I was talking to JH about this the other day...

    This year will be the 3rd memorial I will have missed. I've faded not disphellowshipped or disassociated. To date I have not recieved an invitation to come along to the memorial for any of them. Not that I care to go mind you.

    But what does it mean?

    Well in the mind of a JW who wants all mankind to be saved at Armaggeddon shouldn't they be inviting me along and encouraging me back to the meetings? I mean these are family & friends who I thought genuinally loved me. This is proof that they don't.

    They have no natural affection for a person. We stop going to meetings and they just stop caring. If they had natural affection they wouldn't give up. They would at least attempt to try and help us.

    Interesting isn't it. They say that people showing no natural affection would be a sign of the last days. Are they trying to fulfill their own prophecies?

  • HAL9000
    HAL9000

    You are probably right in your observation. This will be the 4th memorial that Mrs HAL has gone to. In the early days, there was a concerted effort to get me to attend (highly unlikely) but there has been no invitation issued to me by the visiting elder's wife for the past 2 years (I get to see them on a weekly basis). Early attempts at "love bombing" me also failed. It seems like they are either concentrating their effort or have simply given me up as a hopeless case (which is the truth).

  • unclebruce
    unclebruce

    The term 'natural affection™' is interesting viewed in the light of apostate Paul's Greek inspired view of what constituted 'natural'.

    As for getting an invite to the cannibal feast - you know where it is! lol X

  • DanTheMan
    DanTheMan

    The WTS sets up such an impossible standard of religiosity for JW's to attempt to adhere to that many just kinda go numb after awhile, I think I have to think that all the memorial hype has got to seem really transparent to more than a few JW's

  • PoppyR
    PoppyR

    I have noticed this also. I am fading, about 6 months out and people I considered to be close friends have treated me so badly. One recently had a big social gathering and did not invite me, I am relatively newly single and have two boys and this was an event with lots of children. She then texted me to say she was sorry and explained it was because I was not attending meetings.

    I thought it quite telling, that nobody really gives a damn now if my children have 'association' or not. They have cut the whole family off because of my decision, which is fine actually because I dont want the children to have friends in the org anyway! But if they genuinely cared surely a big social gathering would be just the thing to get us re-started?

    She then had the cheek to say she would always be my friend and could we do lunch.. Because she is a 'double life' kind of girl and enjoys coming out with me and knowing she can get away with what she wants. Not any longer! I did not bother to reply.

    I have found true friendship without any kind of conditions out here in the big bad world!! I have a couple of people I know would love me regardless of what I did or believed and will be there for me to the death. True friendship is a rare and valued thing, and it's not to be found in the org.

    Poppy

  • Es
    Es

    I hear you Misspeaches, my father always invited me to the memorials even if we werent speaking at the time he would post an invite.....this year i got nothing no invite at all. Im not D\F or D\A either.

    To me this means that this time this is for real get me, they are no longer talking to me at all. In there eyes i should be D\F????

    Was a bit of a shock really

    es

  • misspeaches
    misspeaches

    ((((Es))))

    Its the worst when it happens from family members...

  • FlyingHighNow
    FlyingHighNow

    Hi, Miss PeachielyPoo. Read Ezekiel Chapter 34. See if you don't see some big similarities between the borg and the negligent shepherds and fat sheep of Israel.


    Ezekiel 34

    Shepherds and Sheep

    1 The word of the LORD came to me: 2 "Son of man, prophesy against the shepherds of Israel; prophesy and say to them: 'This is what the Sovereign LORD says: Woe to the shepherds of Israel who only take care of themselves! Should not shepherds take care of the flock? 3 You eat the curds, clothe yourselves with the wool and slaughter the choice animals, but you do not take care of the flock. 4 You have not strengthened the weak or healed the sick or bound up the injured. You have not brought back the strays or searched for the lost. You have ruled them harshly and brutally. 5 So they were scattered because there was no shepherd, and when they were scattered they became food for all the wild animals. 6 My sheep wandered over all the mountains and on every high hill. They were scattered over the whole earth, and no one searched or looked for them.

    7 " 'Therefore, you shepherds, hear the word of the LORD : 8 As surely as I live, declares the Sovereign LORD, because my flock lacks a shepherd and so has been plundered and has become food for all the wild animals, and because my shepherds did not search for my flock but cared for themselves rather than for my flock, 9 therefore, O shepherds, hear the word of the LORD : 10 This is what the Sovereign LORD says: I am against the shepherds and will hold them accountable for my flock. I will remove them from tending the flock so that the shepherds can no longer feed themselves. I will rescue my flock from their mouths, and it will no longer be food for them.


    11 " 'For this is what the Sovereign LORD says: I myself will search for my sheep and look after them. 12 As a shepherd looks after his scattered flock when he is with them, so will I look after my sheep. I will rescue them from all the places where they were scattered on a day of clouds and darkness. 13 I will bring them out from the nations and gather them from the countries, and I will bring them into their own land. I will pasture them on the mountains of Israel, in the ravines and in all the settlements in the land. 14 I will tend them in a good pasture, and the mountain heights of Israel will be their grazing land. There they will lie down in good grazing land, and there they will feed in a rich pasture on the mountains of Israel. 15 I myself will tend my sheep and have them lie down, declares the Sovereign LORD. 16 I will search for the lost and bring back the strays. I will bind up the injured and strengthen the weak, but the sleek and the strong I will destroy. I will shepherd the flock with justice.


    17 " 'As for you, my flock, this is what the Sovereign LORD says: I will judge between one sheep and another, and between rams and goats. 18 Is it not enough for you to feed on the good pasture? Must you also trample the rest of your pasture with your feet? Is it not enough for you to drink clear water? Must you also muddy the rest with your feet? 19 Must my flock feed on what you have trampled and drink what you have muddied with your feet?


    20 " 'Therefore this is what the Sovereign LORD says to them: See, I myself will judge between the fat sheep and the lean sheep. 21 Because you shove with flank and shoulder, butting all the weak sheep with your horns until you have driven them away, 22 I will save my flock, and they will no longer be plundered. I will judge between one sheep and another. 23 I will place over them one shepherd, my servant David, and he will tend them; he will tend them and be their shepherd. 24 I the LORD will be their God, and my servant David will be prince among them. I the LORD have spoken.


    25 " 'I will make a covenant of peace with them and rid the land of wild beasts so that they may live in the desert and sleep in the forests in safety. 26 I will bless them and the places surrounding my hill. [a] I will send down showers in season; there will be showers of blessing. 27 The trees of the field will yield their fruit and the ground will yield its crops; the people will be secure in their land. They will know that I am the LORD, when I break the bars of their yoke and rescue them from the hands of those who enslaved them. 28 They will no longer be plundered by the nations, nor will wild animals devour them. They will live in safety, and no one will make them afraid. 29 I will provide for them a land renowned for its crops, and they will no longer be victims of famine in the land or bear the scorn of the nations. 30 Then they will know that I, the LORD their God, am with them and that they, the house of Israel, are my people, declares the Sovereign LORD. 31 You my sheep, the sheep of my pasture, are people, and I am your God, declares the Sovereign LORD.' "

  • unclebruce
    unclebruce

    Nobody cares about us in the land of the damned and comming to accept that will help set you free. Free to form real and unconditional friendships (bounded by shared views of respect and decency of course :)

    .. gotta go bikerchic say's I'm blabbering too much ...bloody apostate honesty! lol

  • bikerchic
    bikerchic
    .. gotta go bikerchic say's I'm blabbering too much ...bloody apostate honesty! lol

    awe.......who loves ya baybee? Come on here's a big smooch for ya Bruce

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