So for you...

by KW13 13 Replies latest jw friends

  • jambon1
    He was taken off microphones for kissing a girl, truly nothing more than that. Wonkers!

    ...............and at the same time, the elders sons were secretly boozing, viewing porn & masturbating. They stayed on mics though.

  • jambon1
    Unique1 - the probably also saw sept 11th as a good thing, step nearer to the end

    I heard the expression said many times that the disaster was 'sad, but exciting' - WTF?

    Wacked out freaks.

  • Frannie Banannie
    Frannie Banannie
    So for you what made you leave?

    What helped you stay out?

    Did you have support from friends or anyone (online included )?

    1. Extreme lack of love and extremely judgMENTAL attitudes of those called "brother" and "sister"

    2. see No. 1

    3. Not until I got online 7 yrs after my dF'ing.

  • Woofer

    What made me leave? I got married way too young (19) to a "brother" that I hardly knew. Of course there wasn't much of chance to get to really know who he was deep down because we were never allowed to be alone. I felt a great amount of pressure to marry him since we were dating and dating is "only for marriage". I married him exactly 11 months after I met him. I was miserable in that marriage and I felt it was unfair that I had no way out just because I made a mistake and got married. I felt the only way for me to get out was to have an affair and thats exactly what I did. I did not however count on him forgiving me.

    What helped me stay out? I will admit that I miss my family terribly, but having the FREEDOM to think for myself and make my own decisions was such a breath of fresh air for me. I wasn't willing to give that up.

    Do I have support of friends? I actually work with a disfellowshipped girl. (she got disfellowshipped for falling in love with a worldy guy and she left her husband). She has been my support when I need someone. Her family does not shun her (my family shuns me) so I feel she is extremely lucky in that regard. Also having on-line support helps sooo much. The people on this site REALLY know what you went through.

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