WOW, Bonnie! Welcome to JWD, sweetie! I definitely know what it feels like to do all that you can and then turn around when you're in need and your alleged "brothers" and "sisters" slap you in the face. They love-bomb people in through the front door and slap them all the way out the back.
Isn't it great to be FREE at last? So glad you've got your kiddos out of that mess. Wish I'd gotten mine out sooner so they could have had a more normal life.
Really glad to have you here, Bonnie! Enjoy!