I was talking to my aunt the other day. She knows I talk to you apostate folks and I don't think she's very comfortable with it, but that's her problem.
She did, however, ask a question that seems particularly important, not only in and of itself, but even more so when you apply it more generally.
The question was: What do you people have now that you're out? What has leaving given you?
One may assume that she is indirectly asking, what might SHE look forward to if she leaves. What's out there for HER.
Note: if you are "born again" you need not reply, she thinks you're flaky and I'm inclined to agree LOLOL