Have you ever reacted to a situation, and then thought, wait a minute, that was the morals I was taught as a JW catching up with me?
I still respect the morals I was taught as a witness and still abide by them.
The thing I have to keep reminding myself is.....I could have learned these SAME morals had I been brought up in another religion/enviroment/culture. Sometimes we ex-dubs forget JW's are not the only moral bible abiding people on the planet.
I used to apply my morals for Jehovah, and now I apply them because they simply work. Showing love to others for instance just works. It makes you feel good and those you show love to.
Being honest makes YOU feel good....rather than doing it because it makes your god happy. If there's a god, he'll be happy your honest anyways....it goes with the territory.
Cheating on your mate doesn't work for the one cheated on no matter how you slice it and whether Jehovah is involved or not. When the one that is cheated on has their life ruined in the marriage arena, the cheaters life also becomes ruined. It wasn't Jehovahs doing that made it that way....it's how people are. Morals and the lack of, have enhanced and ruined entire civilizations.