not sure if your blind or just cant read, but like I said I AM MARRIED TO IT!!!
I did not state when I got married, but growing up as a JW it was young, I was stupid, it was a mistake, I got lemons and made lemonade sorry you disagree.
It is difficult for me to leave because I will never confuse my children, yes my husband can be abusive and yes he does a lot of wrong things, but he does take care of us and he is their father. I wish they were older and I would leave, I just can not do it now.
One day I will however pack up my things and move on, but it will be when I can support my children with out him that day is not today.
As for your counsel you should be reading that to yourself, you lack common since and the ability to give me advice. Sadly there are so many JWS like you out there who believe a scripture can solve it all. I for one thing can not understand why any human being would even Marry a JW unless they were in it together, because JWs do not date outside of the organization, your question to me why did I marry him because I did not live with him before marriage left him twice within our first 4 years of marriage but was told by the Elders that I must stay and work it out, me not being a quiter did just that. But that does not mean it is easy.
I was hoping to get some advice from those who are in the same boat so to speak, apparently you do not qualify, so please move on.