Hi,
I believe individuals that experience same-sex sexual attraction will forever be ostracized by religious people for many reasons. Homosexual orientation is the involuntary mechanism of the mind that religionists will not try to understand; they generally equate it with homosexual behaviour and this is not fair. Equally, it may not be fair to throw Nicolosi and the WTS into the same basket.
Homosexuality is difficult to define. Many have sought to understand its cause. Mid-20th century psychological explanations were unsatisfactory. Havelock Henry Ellis may have been the first to propose a physiologic cause for this mystery and researchers of the past three decades unsuccessfully sought explanation in clinical studies. No hard evidence was forthcoming for a biologic cause. You have to see the issue in the light of efforts to understand it. To simply condemn homosexuality failed the individual who suffers the anguish when first confronted with the orientation.
The APA once considered homosexuality a mental disorder, but through sheer bullying by homosexual activists changed their position in 1973. Other individuals in the mental health field who maintain it has a psychologic cause and cure have been censured by professional fraternities and this is why Nicolosi et.al are ridiculed to this day. But you can't deny success; and Socarides, Nicolosi and others have aided sufferers to divest themselves from the orientation. The homosexual activists don't want this approach and perpetuate other myths for its cause. There exists a huge population of former homosexuals now living heterosexual identities. You seldom hears about them in the media and the activists don't want to know about them either.
Ultimately, it comes down to what the individual decides. He(or she) may find the orientation compatible and choose to engage in the behaviour. At this juncture same-sex sex becomes no different from heterosexual fornication as far as affiliation with any group, religious or otherwise, that deems it to be incompatible with their codes of acceptable behaviour.
Groups like the WTS, unfortunately, are not equipped to help their members with any human weakness or tendency. It is much easier to label a suffer and ostracize him or her, whatever the problem.