by Garrett 23 Replies latest social relationships
I would say, ifyou notice something beautiful about her, don't internalize that thought. Say it right away, but don't be too fawning, that would be creepy. Girls DO like compliments tho. Don't do the phone picture thing (sorry fmf!) that would just be bragging.
Ask her to share an adventure with you, outdoors. Kayaking, hiking, mountain biking, whatever is nearby.
Yes that's it Garrett and listen carefully then that will stimulate a further question ask more details. Keep asking questions but to express your interest not in an interrogating manner
Kate xx
Yes Kate but I'm not just a man. I'm a man whore - fmf
Well some girls like that too lol. I enjoy winding up guys who aren't really interested
Kate xx
Not a female, but done this a few times...
Compliment, but don't overdo...
Show an interest, but don't overdo...
Be confident, not arrogant...
Works almost 100% of the time, unless she already has a bf.
d4g
@katewild ah winding guys up? What does that mean, eh? You enjoy toying with us?- Garret
Only guys who are not genuine and just after sex, or married guys who want something on the side. I don't wind up guys who are genuine and kind.
Kate xx
Aren't there any guys who are genuine, kind, married, and want something on the side?
Look her in the eye's, smile, be sincere but confident. Read the signals and act accordingly and your in.
Or run this through your head from the wonderfully hysterical film Swinger's, an exchange between John Favreau and Vince Vaughn.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oUa2atNxhfg
Trent: "You know what? You're like a big bear with claws, with fangs-"
Sue: "Big f-cking teeth, man."
Trent: "...with big f-cking teeth on you. And she's just like this little bunny, just kind of cowering in the corner-"
Sue: "Shivering!"
Trent: "Yeah, man. You got these claws, and you're staring at these claws, man, and you're thinkin' "how am I supposed to kill this bunny".
Sue: "You're pokin' at it. You're pokin' at it."
Trent: "Yeah, you're not hurting it. You're just gently battin' the bunny around. You know what I mean? The bunny's scared, Mike. The bunny's scared of you."
Sue: "And you got these f-cking claws, man."
Trent: "You got these f-cking claws and these fangs, man. And you're looking at your claws and you're lookin' at your fangs and you're thinkin' to yourself, 'I don't know what to do', man. 'I don't know how to kill the bunny. With this, I don't know how to kill the bunnies', man."
Sue: "You're like a big bear, man."
