I didn't mean to disappear. Really appreciate what everyone said. The big thing is that it IS superficial. Obviously, the conversation is over since it happened a couple days ago. But we told him we'd back to him on a few topics. To me, it's kind of pointless because he thinks the governing body have the truth, even though he's seen most of their flaws. So nothing we say will be heard. I just wish I was prepared. Instead, I mainly stayed in the kitchen cooking & had a glass of wine. I told my husband about this thread, so maybe get some good pointers from what you've said.